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Writer's pictureHolly Pflugh

Shedding the Weight of Fear: My Journey to Empowerment, Independence, and Thriving After Divorce

I've been stuck in a rut for what felt like an eternity. Every day seemed like an uphill battle with pockets laden with rocks, dragging me down and leaving me utterly exhausted. The whirlwind of change that engulfed my life over the past four months left me paralyzed, unsure which direction to turn. In that uncertain darkness, I found a glimmer of light - the newfound responsibility of steering my own ship, making my own decisions, and even managing simple tasks like cooking and taking out the trash. Yes, you read that right, I even took the garbage out!


Gratitude fills me when I think of my parents, who cared for me until I got married, and Luke, who offered a supporting hand until now. But now, standing on my own - well, mostly - I feel a sense of empowerment and pride that I've never experienced before. It's like with each passing day, a rock is lifted from my pocket, lightening my load. The anxiety and fear that once gripped me are gradually dissipating, making way for a newfound zest for life.


I refuse to let my days slip away, consumed by anxiety, fear, and guilt. I yearn to thrive, to create a legacy that I can pass on, even if only for a fleeting moment in time. My daughters are undoubtedly the most beautiful legacy I've crafted, yet I'm eager to embark on a new journey, crafting a fresh list of life-changing endeavors that I aspire to accomplish and witness.


Today, I am overflowing with gratitude for all the wonderful souls who grace my life, making each day a tad brighter and lighter. To all of you embarking on your own paths, I wish you a fantastic week filled with light, love, and inspiration. Keep shedding those metaphorical rocks from your pockets and embrace the journey of self-discovery and growth.


Embracing this newfound chapter of independence has been nothing short of liberating. As a mother, a professional, and a divorcee, I've learned that within the challenges lie the seeds of opportunity. It's in those moments of self-doubt and fear that we unearth our true strength and resilience. I am sharing my story not as a mere anecdote but as a testament to the grit and determination that exist within each of us.






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